Message 1718 of 22774 in Behind the Bar

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> Sifting through this monster thread:  I think what amazes me most is 
> the simple lack of respect.
> 
> Lack of respect to the fine profession of serving.
> Lack of respect to a customer that is the whole reason you have your 
> job
>    -- to take care of them and serve them a meal and drink.
> Lack of respect for a differing opinion.
> Lack of respect to the fellow person working within the same 
> profession.
****> Lack of respect for maintaining decorum.****
> 
> Which now prompts the following Disclaimer:  This is not meant to 
> throw a stone at anyone or anything in particular.  Just a thought, 
> and merely a thought on this thread.
> 
> This is a sad shift of recent trends in this forum which I felt was a 
> mecca of information.

Amen to all of the above.  I hope Pal is reading this.
I felt this summed it up.  "Police-ing" was not done.   ???  What on earth was 
so bad about the advice given in this thread?  Open your mind?  Look for a new 
job?  Give consideration that not all who work in whatever profession don't 
tip all the same?  Before you (Yes, you Heavywear and Kdiddy) decided to lash 
out, name call and make it a bad experience, even for our host Pal? why dont 
you, sit back and relax and read something that may be of help.  So what is 
you beef???  Now you're better because the two of you demonstrated playground 
mentality of bullying, harrassing and making a spectacle of yourself?  And 
then Kdiddy asked if I would hire him?  Are you guys out of your blinking 
minds?  And you expressed the desire to be a manager one day Kdiddy?  It was 
on the whole of your child like tyrade deep seated aggression that is making 
this forum go down to Pal's consideration to shut down!  Sensitivity or 
respect to another, whether it is a customer or anyone on this forum is not 
apparent.  Why?  What have you contributed other than your outrage and blind 
flury of anger?  Why does someone else's opinion spur you to such aggressive 
and rude retaliation?
As for Lynn, I know she has contributed here.  I would like to think I have 
too.
Does it make you feel like a better person to pick on a girl?  Are you now the 
champion of this forum?  I noticed you make a comment about popularity, that 
is something I dont think you should worry about.  So why won't you let this 
die already?  You have already had one person support you to back out and 
doesn't that say something to you?  Man, both of you make it hard to respond 
to you with any sort of real advice if you are going to shoot it down and rant 
and rave insults the whole time.  Heavywear, you comment alone about wanting 
to punch the computer screen shows how much to heart you are taking this.  
Focus some of that rage to a different outlet maybe a trip to the gym?  Dude, 
even in this thread you can learn something positive.  Why is it so hard to 
see?
Happy now that you've given way to the possible shut down of this?  Name 
called without shame?  Come on, aren't you better than that?

the good drink doctor