> 1. It hurts. My feet, back and shoulders are killing me. Older folks
> like Seeker need to think about that. I'm almost 30 and can see
> burnout happening within 5 years.
Good shoes help and you might want to try some of those gel inserts (different
people swear by different brands). Most long term waiters and chefs I know
invest in the most comfortable shoes they can. They say that that's the only
way they can hold out shift and shift.
> my own boss got wasted and smashed up the bar....
At least he was drunk when he did it. I have seen some bosses do this when
they weren't drunk, just 'being themselves'.
The best boss I worked for back in my grad school days was also in my Tae Kwon
Do class. He hired me to double as a bouncer (I was in a lot better shape back
then, having just gotten out of the Marines). It was pretty rare to have
serious problems with customers, but we always had a waitress's boyfriend or
mad 'other woman' showing up. Sometimes others on the staff can be more of a
problem than your clientle.