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> Maybe I should just change out Lil's photo?
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Officialy, you should. But I would send another letter to someone in the
company with a better attitude a letter containing something as "I've heard
you don't allow blabla ... I've only been using this wallpaper and a portret
... is that okay?"
It could be that you received the standard "NO use of our material!" letter. A
quick look on their site makes me guess that they have to deal with a lot of
material wandering around the net.