Hello Blondie.
I can somewhat sympathize with her also. I'm not a supermodel nor anything
close to looking like one but alot of guys tend to hit on me also fortunatley
I'm married and do not try to hide it. Most of the time when the guys see my
ring or find out that I am attached they tend to back off a bit instead of
geting offers to go home with them or dinner invitations I get the If you
wern't married I'd....and thats about the time I cut them off and remind them
agin of my situation and in a frendliy way say If I wasnt married you would be
#1 on my list and when I leave him you'll be the first to know. That way they
feel special and know that I'm very commited to my husband at the same time. I
still get tiped by them afterwards because I remeber their names and what they
drink and create a freindship with them. When they walk in I tell them hello
and act like I'm happy to see them. In your case I would just get a fake
engagement ring and tell them you live with your fiance and that you can not
give out your number and that he is at home waiting for you and if your tips
slow down after that just tell them that your engaged but it's not going so
well It gives them a littel hope that they can steal ya away. Thats just my
opinion!