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Subject: Re: NEED ADVICE FOR A NEW HOT BLONDE BARTENDER
From: Sarah
Posted: Wed Jan 9. 2002, 19:30 UTC
Followup to: "Re: NEED ADVICE FOR A NEW HOT BLONDE BARTENDER"  by Carson  (Tue Jan 8. 2002, 22:01 UTC)
Hello Blondie.

I can somewhat sympathize with her also. I'm not a supermodel nor anything 
close to looking like one but alot of guys tend to hit on me also fortunatley 
I'm married and do not try to hide it. Most of the time when the guys see my 
ring or find out that I am attached they tend to back off a bit instead of 
geting offers to go home with them or dinner invitations I get the If you 
wern't married I'd....and thats about the time I cut them off and remind them 
agin of my situation and in a frendliy way say If I wasnt married you would be 
#1 on my list and when I leave him you'll be the first to know. That way they 
feel special and know that I'm very commited to my husband at the same time. I 
still get tiped by them afterwards because I remeber their names and what they 
drink and create a freindship with them. When they walk in I tell them hello 
and act like I'm happy to see them. In your case I would just get a fake 
engagement ring and tell them you live with your fiance and that you can not 
give out your number and that he is at home waiting for you and if your tips 
slow down after that just tell them that your engaged but it's not going so 
well It gives them a littel hope that they can steal ya away.  Thats just my 
opinion!


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